We all have our moments when we feel up, down and torn inside out. More often than not, things don't make sense and it's hard to piece together the fragments of our lives that leave us bewildered and confused. Struggling to take the next step in the 'right' direction.
We are all so imperfect. The world is a massive, messed-up melting pot of sins and blessings, it's no wonder we often don't know which way is up. The past couple years have been the year of 'Opinions'. Everyone seems to have one about everything. Whatever the latest news trend is on Facebook, becomes the focus of everyone's world and we all become an authority on it. It's exhausting.
People use social network mediums in their own way. Some barely post, some divulge every single move they make throughout the day, some use it to keep in touch with long long friends and families, others use it to annoy their friends (even if they don't know they're doing it). There's often a lot of things I want to post but I don't because I don't want your opinion (Or anyone's). I never understand those who post vague and less than descriptive messages but respond to people with "I don't want to talk about it" or "inbox me for details". Seeking attention much? Sadly, I see this literally five times a week from different people and I have absolutely no doubt I've done it myself. Just a big ole pot of lame.
New Subject: Goals.
They're tough sometimes. We want to strive for better and we don't even mind the hard work, but what if you never get there? It's so discouraging to put in so much effort and never yield the results you desire. But you've got to try. Because if you don't put forth the effort, then you're guaranteeing yourself to fail.
I was having this discussion with my 18 year old Step daughter the other night. She told me she has 'tried' to curve some bad habits and I said "No, you haven't." Making an effort a single, solitary time isn't trying. Trying has to be on-going and consistent. You don't do something one day and then stop and say "Well, I tried"
Whether it be exercise, relationships, employment - whatever your goal may be - if you want to thrive, you need to strive. Every day. Every chance you get. And you never quit. Because you only fail when you fail to try.
No one demands perfection. It doesn't exist. But YOU should demand the best from yourself. You should demand yourself to never stop trying, never stop striving to be better than you were yesterday. Sure you'll hit a bump or two along the way but persevere. Stick with it. you'll get there.
Very Well Said!
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